Very slow site due to rtMedia/Buddypress Media!

I ran P3 plugin profiler, and it seems that rtMedia/Buddypress media is a HUGE resource hog, taking over 8 seconds to load. Why is this? Can someone shed some light? My url is

Hello @MakeMeaSite,

You can check similar support thread here: P3 performance profiler and rtMedia results

I suggest you to check performance with query monitor plugin instead:

Thank you.